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\u00a0I’ve been feeling like I’m over thinking ABSOLUTELY<\/span> everything and getting in my head way too much lately. Especially over things that I have zero control over. Healthy, right?! Yeah it’s def something I would recommend if you wanna drive yourself crazy :-)<\/p>\n

So last week I made a little challenge for myself.<\/em><\/span><\/h4>\n

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Stop wasting all your time dwelling on things that you have no control over. Start spending more time thinking about the things that you can<\/span> control. Your thoughts, your actions, your appearance, your Instagram aesthetic — whatever it is that will help you to feel the control that you need! Does that make sense? It is so much easier said than done, but I did notice that this week I felt a lot better this week. Spending hours and hours focusing on what others are thinking and doing sucks the damn life outta you. I KNOW. I’ve been there. It’s seriously one of the most draining feelings to continue to try to control things that you JUST CAN’T. Harsh reality I know, but it’s so true.<\/p>\n

I needed that reminder this week and hey, maybe you do too! Focus on yourself and the rest will fall into place. I really have become such a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and if it’s meant to be it will be. I’ve seen that in the past few years, so I’m stickin to it.<\/p>\n

Don’t be afraid to relinquish control. It will be worth it in the end. You’ll mentally feel better, I can promise you that. Pour your energy into what you can control. Mindset is everything. When is the last time you woke up and told yourself you were gonna have a great day? I know for me, it doesn’t happen often. I get caught up in the routine. But there’s so much value in having a positive mindset. Good things will come! There is so much to look forward to! Find gratitude in the unknown, I’m sure that better things are ahead for you.<\/p>\n

One of my favorite sayings is the serenity prayer. I’ll say it when I’m stressed out about WHATEVER just as a reminder. It always calms me down.<\/p>\n

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,<\/span><\/em><\/h5>\n
the courage to change the things I can,<\/span><\/em><\/h5>\n
and the wisdom to know the difference. Amen.<\/span><\/em><\/h5>\n

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And if you’re in a #girltalk mood then check out some other posts:<\/span><\/p>\n

Knowing your self-worth<\/a><\/p>\n

Dealing with self-doubt<\/a><\/p>\n

Mid summer recap + reflection<\/a><\/p>\n

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Set your sights high this week! You can do it – just don’t be afraid to lose control.<\/p>\n

Madison<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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