{"id":3550,"date":"2018-10-17T15:52:30","date_gmt":"2018-10-17T21:52:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/louisianagirlinpearls.com\/?p=3550"},"modified":"2018-10-17T15:52:30","modified_gmt":"2018-10-17T21:52:30","slug":"knowing-your-self-worth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/louisianagirlinpearls.com\/index.php\/2018\/10\/17\/knowing-your-self-worth\/","title":{"rendered":"Knowing your self-worth"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hi y’all! I’m baaaaccck today with a #girltalk<\/span>. Since this summer, these types of posts have been my absolute favorite to write. Being vulnerable on the internet can be scary, so I hope you’ll read this and it’ll be what you need to hear.<\/p>\n

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Self-worth.<\/span> How do we value ourselves? Do we have too little self-worth and continue to let people walk all over us or<\/em> do we have oodles of it which drive us to be a total bad ass babe? If you’re asking about me, I would like to think I fall in the middle of the spectrum but that’s not entirely true. Self-worth has a lot of grey areas and I think that’s why I had such a difficult time sitting down to write this blog post. Shoutout to y’all for requesting posts like these that challenge me to think<\/em>.<\/p>\n

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I often hear the word self-worth in conjunction to relationships – whether they be boys or just friendships. Do you really not have enough self-worth to tell him something? You’re really gonna let her treat you like that? Clearly you don’t see how much your friendship really worth.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

As a chronically single twenty-one year old, a lot of times I find myself looking at self-worth when it comes to boys. If there is anything I have learned from the many times that things didn’t work out with a boy it’s this: just because he can’t see your worth, does NOT mean you don’t have it. You have to stay hopeful.<\/span> As a self-proclaimed romantic (thank you rom-coms for making me this way), I have to think that someday things will work out. Someday there will be someone who can see all that I’m worth. But until then, I have to ride out this wave of life (even with all of it’s ups and downs) until that time comes. Keep doin you girl, there’s really no better way to respect yourself than that.<\/p>\n

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In my opinion, self-worth is allowing yourself to experience things, to live life, get hurt.<\/span> I don’t think self-worth necessarily relates to guarding yourself from anything and everything that could break you, but instead it means embracing it. Life is never going to be perfect, and you’re not always going to be happy. But being able to allow those experiences, whether they be good or bad happen and actually LEARN from them, now that to me is the true meaning of self-worth. You owe it to yourself<\/em> to get heartbroken, try something new, and learn who your true friends are.<\/p>\n

So let’s start looking at things this way: respect yourself enough to be strong and confident in your decisions – you<\/em> know what’s right for you<\/em>!<\/span> Not anyone else. Get out there and LIVE, y’all. It will be worth it in the end. Only you can change your perspective on life. If you find yourself in a negative situation, live it and LEARN from it. You’ve only made yourself much stronger because of it.<\/p>\n

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When you’re feeling down, or maybe not worthy of someone tell yourself this: I am worth it. I am enough. You don’t need validation from someone else to tell you what you’re worth. They don’t know your thoughts, they don’t know the struggles you’ve been through to get here, they don’t know the whole you. And if they did, then they certainly would be able to see ALL YOUR VALUE, ALL YOUR WORTH. It’s there, it’s always been there and it’ll be there for the rest of your life. So start acting like it. You are so worth it.<\/p>\n

If you’re struggling with self-worth, try to take a bit of time each day to tell yourself something you love about yourself. One of my favorite things to do is to have a constant reminder so I’ll often set a quote I’m loving as my phone background. I’m sharing a few of my recent favorites with y’all below.<\/p>\n

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YOU ARE ENOUGH.<\/span> And if you needed to hear that today, hear it from me. SO much love for all of y’all who read! XOXO<\/p>\n

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